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    10 Comments     Friday, February 13th, 2009

    Failure to Launch

    Can’t get it up? Janine has some advice.

    Stressed out asks: Dear Janine, Its been 4 years I’m stressed out, but every night my girl try to make love to me but I can’ get up, she thinks I’m cheating on her when I tell her nah baby I’m just stressed, what should I do?

    Janine says: This is tricky, because one half of your issue is dealing with your girls trust issues which you can’t fully resolve on your own. In regards to her thinking your cheating, you need to do whatever you can to assure her you are being faithful. If she trusted you, your inability get up wouldn’t cause her to automatically assume the only reason is infidelity. Therefore you need to address the trust issues in your relationship first. Whether that’s worked on by calling her more often when you aren’t home, allowing her to accompany you to places, etc. Whatever it is you do to make her think you are cheating, try to eliminate or minimize. If you have large amounts of time where she feels that you are using to partake in the wrong things, spend those hours with her or at least call her. Whatever it may be, do what you can to regain your trust. Once she can trust you, she won’t feel you are cheating on her and not engaging in sex alone will not be enough to cause those doubts.

    Now in regards to your sexual issue, you may want to see a doctor. You can try stress relieving methods but if that doesn’t work you should let your doctor check you out. It may not be stress related, and even if so there are still medical remedies to this. The reality is that even if your relationship lasts through the lengthy amount of time it may take to regain her trust without sex, this issue is likely to cause other problems in your relationship. Her sexual satisfaction will eventually become an issue, your male ego may start to feel bruised and cause you seek masculinity in other ways. I suggest you see a doctor to find out ways and strategies to get it up, or if you need medication.

    If the libido aspect is resolved prior to the trust issue being resolved I still recommend you complete the goal of regaining her trust anyway. It will be the best situation for the two of you in the long run.
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    10 Responses to “Failure to Launch”

    02.13.09 at 3:59 pm

    John says:
    sounds like the answer to his problem is “get viagra, dummy”

    02.14.09 at 11:23 am

    FUCK JOHN says:
    Come in seeking advide and get a stupid answer like this “get medical help”… The problem is she doesnt sexually excite you as she once did. You need to try new things and bring the freak back out…

    02.16.09 at 2:19 am

    Double Oh says:
    FJ is right (although I wouldn’t have put it quite so crudely), the spark probably went out in the bedroom. But the truth is only duke knows what’s really wrong.

    02.25.09 at 8:40 am

    I Want Her Back says:
    Dear Janine. Is been a year and a few months since i broke up with my girl. Her current boyfriend is keeping us out of contact and she seems very happy with him. The only problem is i cant stop missing her and thinking of her. We broke up as a result of her cheating on me and many other reasons but this girl is just driving me crazy. I noticed that she is being very faithful to him or at least it seems like that to me. But i am so jealous of his happiness and always question why she couldn’t be that way when she was with me. In the back of my mind i know she is wrong for me but i cant help wanting her back in my life. My family and friends will be so disappointed if i allow her back into my life but i feel its the only way i can be sane again. If she is really happy i don’t want to be the reason for it to end. I want and miss her really bad Please tell me what to do

    02.25.09 at 8:42 am

    I Want Her Back says:
    Fuck! wrong web page

    03.27.09 at 9:06 am

    race says:
    what ever

    02.21.11 at 8:17 pm

    alvor says:
    your problem might also low testosterone ,when combined with stress can cause you not being able to maintain an erection.

    03.17.11 at 11:12 am

    John Cochran says:
    Thats advice clearly from a woman’s point of view. Not gonna help that man at all.

    04.6.11 at 4:16 pm

    been there says:
    Just get your mind right and the body will follow. That mean get her mind right too. No use in getting him back up if she gone. She gave you good advice follow it

    08.28.12 at 11:16 am

    tjocean says:
    the most important thing is how open you wANT THE RELATSIONSHIP IF HE’S WITH SOME ONE ELSE YOU DON’T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT HIM AND PLUS HE MAY BE IN A BETTER MOOD WHEN HE’S WITH YOU THE POINT IS WHAT ARE WILLING TO PUT UP WITH IN THE RESATSIONSHIP

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