14 Comments Wednesday, March 25th, 2009
Charm School
“Game advisor” Tariq Nasheed offers up the five rules every true player should follow.
For many brothers, talking to a woman can be one of the most difficult experiences in their life. That is where Tariq Nasheed steps in. Nasheed is a dating coach and game advisor with the ability to school brothers worldwide in the strategy of being a player. He has penned several books, including The Art Of Mackin, which gives key rules that men should follow when dealing with the opposite sex. Tariq also has a series of radio podcasts called The Mack Lessons Radio Show, which covers topics like dating, relationships and social issues. For the guys who are shooting duds on the dating field, grab a pen and pad—the Game Advisor has arrived.
1. Exercise your “mack muscle”
“Your mack muscle is your mouthpiece. A lot of guys have a problem spittin’ proper game to women because they let their mouthpiece get rusty. Your mouthpiece is like any other muscle in your body—if you don’t exercise it, it will get weak. So the way to strengthen your game is to go out and socialize with as many people possible. Make it a point to speak to everyone from co-workers to people at the bus stop. Practice socializing so when you come across a fly female your mouthpiece will be ready.”
2. Take your game on the road
“A true player has to travel and experience different females from different cultures. This will really keep your game tight. Staying in the same hood, dealing with the same types of females year in and year out will really downgrade your game.”
3. Have zero tolerance for disrespect
“It’s in a woman’s nature to test a man. This has been going on since the beginning of time. The story of Adam and Eve is about woman testing a man and the repercussions of man not checking woman. When a woman tests a man and he doesn’t check her on it, the woman will start disrespecting him. As a player, you have to have zero tolerance for any form of disrespect. You have to establish early on in the relationship that you are not the one to be tested.”
4. Step your gear up
“These days, a lot of men are dressing extra casual. That’s cool to a certain extent, but if you want to be a true player, you should get suited up at least one day a week. You don’t have to throw on a tux, but you should put on some “choosin’ clothes” once a week and go out and conduct everyday business. You will notice the level of respect you will receive. You will also notice the quality of women that will step to you.”
5. Be a leader
“A true player is a boss. And a true boss is a man who is worthy of being followed. Always have integrity when you deal with females. Respect is always better than acceptance. Anyone can be accepted, but a true boss will be respected.”—As told to La’Juanda Knight
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14 Responses to “Charm School”
03.27.09 at 7:04 pm
Playboy007 says:
Great advice, once these playboy’s realize a true player knows when he has a good woman, and the running around does more harm than good
03.27.09 at 9:39 pm
Dick D. Dastard says:
This dude’s a fake ass player. He’s giving vague, uninspired, and unapplicable advice. Want to know how to get women kid’s? Google the term “Social Dynamics” and work your way from there…
03.27.09 at 9:55 pm
Chad(((((the real chad))))) says:
Tariq speaks the truth!
03.27.09 at 9:59 pm
Nokware says:
Good article. His book is good too. Entertaining and surprisingly useful.
03.28.09 at 1:56 pm
Preach says:
This the type of shit people need to hear more often The right game will get you in and out of the women as fast as you need tobe so you can add those notches to yo belt playa If youre into whips/cars/donks etc… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1RXgu58ViMI Follow along close with this jam.. he goes thru like 100 cars all in a story without shit soundin corny, still http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1RXgu58ViMI
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03.28.09 at 2:45 pm
bless says:
This Nigga Knows his shit not sure if dude an Asiatic Hotep fam! i got love for my niggaz writing books and articles stepping my Afrocentric peoples game up. King-mag should give this man his own little space. with all the fatherless homes in our community we need ALOT more Black writers that are consciously aware. good work King
03.28.09 at 10:48 pm
joker says:
dope advice this is the way i live
03.29.09 at 12:25 pm
Johnny Popcorn says:
real talk.
03.29.09 at 9:39 pm
RedTurban says:
Salaam Bro.Tariq!..Keep up the good work…You have reached SuperHero status…Peace
03.30.09 at 12:35 am
C.C Waterbound says:
I personally enjoy Tariq’s advice and wisdom on the opposite sex, its quite simple and easy to approach a woman based on these 3 primary rules I mean if your pop’s never told you the basics then how can you expect to pull somethin extra fresh? Rule 1: Always have something to speak upon whether it be about sports, politics, current issues, or about popular culture. the reason being is to get the young lady’s intrest in noticing you and feeling your persoanlity out. If you come off as being too silly she won’t pay you any mind or take you seriously, but if your too serious she’ll take it as if your uptight about something and don’t know how to have any fun or be charming. so the best thing you can do is be yourself and read her reactions to what you say and more importantly how you say it, if you execute your timing with what you say and how you say it she’ll gain so much intrest in you that she’ll perhaps ask you to take her out on a date.
Rule 2: Always be on guard when dealing with the opposite sex, that can mean your physical appearance, the way you dress and smell, to the way you walk and talk, be smooth as silk nonchalant but a bit serious and cautious, never let her see you sweat, I mean rejection is a part of the courtship process you can bag as many women as you can but you’ll eventually run accross one that isn’t impressed by what your holding so remain patient and smooth, but by all means remain confident, not cocky CONFIDENT!
and last but not least Rule 3:
Know your self, when i say this I mean know your self as a man never feel intimidated by any woman, after all your a man so act like one, know your strengths and weaknesses make your strengths stronger, and your weakness your overall strengths you can play a game unless you have perfect defense, develop your weakenesses into your greatest strengths and allow them to stand out for you women take to strong outgoing, and optimistic men, always be in control of your emotions and thoughts and above all else never let a woman lower your self esteem, if she tries to play you simply tell her to go play with her self and be done with it. the end
03.30.09 at 7:30 am
GO-Getta' says:
I ‘ve’nt fuck a female in yrs & 4get/ don’t remember what a hug from a truly beatiful opposite sex is like.
Rule 1-3 that’s what’s up.
04.5.09 at 11:49 am
bi boy says:
go-getta i’ll fuck you
04.25.09 at 1:08 pm
frky says:
Thats sense, but a brother also gonna need help
04.25.09 at 1:09 pm
frky says:
………KEEPING his catch